Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Developing Your Leadership Skills

Keywords: Skill, Leader, Leadership

More Details about http://www.cosmiccoachingcentre.com here.
Summary:

By Cecile Peterkin
Leadership = Influence. It is the art or process of influencing people so that they will strive willingly and enthusiastically. As human beings we all influence someone: parent to child, teacher to student, friend to friend, employer to employee, and coach to athlete. If you stop to think about it, the list is endless. Since we are all capable of influencing others, we all have the potential to be leaders.

A leader is not necessarily the person at the head of the table or the one with the title. The next time you are in a meeting or a social function, see how quickly you can tell who the real leader is: it is the person others naturally watch, listen to, gravitate towards, and follow.

Leadership is more than a position. Leadership is a skill. Because we all have areas in which we excel, from time to time we are all thrust into leadership roles. While these opportunities may seem uncomfortable at first, ask yourself a few important questions. Which skills do I have that are being called upon? What do I have to offer? Then, take the opportunity to use these skills to move the situation forward.

Leadership takes time and experience to develop. Take advantage of these opportunities to develop your leadership skills.

cecile@cosmiccoachingcentre.com
Author's URL: http://www.cosmiccoachingcentre.com
Cecile Peterkin is a Certified Career, Life Coach and Speaker. Feeling stuck in middle management or mid career? Claim your FR-EE Assessment and complimentary career guidance coaching session at http://www.CosmicCoachingCentre.com/careercoach.html


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Monday, September 29, 2008

The Buyer's Point of View

Keywords: business, sales, marketing, psychology
More Details about http://www.vmmg.net here.
Summary: In order to make the sale, you must understand the mindset of the buyer. When it comes to large capital expenditures there are number of emotions that are driving the buyer’s decision.
By Bryan Brandenburg



In order to make the sale, you must understand the mindset of the buyer. When it comes to large capital expenditures there are number of emotions that are driving the buyer’s decision. The more you’re in tune with these emotions, the more consciously you can address them during the process and minimize their negative impact on closing the sale.

Insecurity The buyer often has a sense of insecurity when making a decision, especially one that involves spending their own or their company’s capital. Not only does the buyer need to make a good choice, but they need to minimize the risk of losses from a bad choice.

All and all the buyer feels tremendous pressure to make the right decision. A bad decision could not only cost them money, but could even cost the decision maker their job. Do your best to address these insecurities even if the buyer doesn’t articulate them. Make the buyer feel safe with you and your company.

Risk The buyer will be evaluating risk during the buying process. Good business and personal finance is about managing risk. Try to ascertain what risks the buyer believes there are with the product or service or your company specifically or in general. Be sure to address these concerns throughout your communications.

Impatience If the problem is urgent there usually is a feeling of impatience with the buyer. There is an inherent stress factor as the buyer feels pressure to make the decision quickly, yet is experiencing the resistance to rush into a bad decision.

You can create an assurance with the buyer that you’ll be able to move quickly once the decision is made. Try and ascertain the issues the buyer needs to understand before being comfortable making a decision. Then create certainty around those issues.

Worry Prudent decision makers worry, regardless of the confidence they show on the outside. If it's with a business, it's the buyer's job and responsibility to worry about the details of their decisions. Find out what their big worries are and make them into small ones.

Exposure The buyer will be evaluating their exposure throughout the buying process. Depending on the type of product or service, the extent and range of exposure will vary. Put yourself in the buyer’s mind and business to examine the exposure. Help the buyer troubleshoot exposure scenarios to reduce or eliminate them. Money back guarantees go a long way to reducing a buyer's exposure.

Ignorance Seldom will you get a customer that’s as technically proficient in the details of the product or service as you are. You’re the expert so there is often an intimidation factor based on the customer’s insecurities around their technical ignorance.

Do your best to educate the customer; communicate in language free of jargon, provide simple analogies, educational resources, answer their questions and work with them UNTIL they understand the issues at hand. Don't try and close until the customer is comfortable with all key aspects of the purchase.

Skepticism There is a natural and programmed skepticism when buyers are dealing with sellers. Almost everybody has been misled by a salesman in their life.

The way to overcome skepticism is by building a relationship with the customer before you ever start to sell. Work to understand the customer, the company and the problems that are in discussion. Create a friendly rapport and gain their trust.

Probe the customer to discover any elements of skepticism. Don’t ask why they might be concerned, wary, or skeptical with you or your company. Focus on why they might be uncomfortable with your products or company in general.

Resistance Resistance is a trained reaction developed over many experiences with sales people. If there was no resistance, the customer would be buying everything that people were selling and would be out of business or broke. The best way to address resistance in a customer is not to push against it, until it has softened. The resistance is an adversarial position, so you must become their partner and trusted advisor. Give the general solutions to their problem with no expectations of reimbursement. Brainstorm and demonstrate that you have their best interests at heart and the resistance will soften and go away.
b.brandenburg@vmmg.net
Author's URL: http://bryanbrandenburg.blog.com

Bryan Brandenburg has published 7 books as well as a number of articles both in print and on the internet. He has published almost 40 software programs both for consumers and business. More information and articles can be found at www.vmmg.net

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Sunday, September 28, 2008

How To Get A Visa/MasterCard With No Credit Check

Keywords: credit card
More Details about http://www.ReliefLoans.com here.
Summary: Creditors approve credit to those people who most closely match the right profile. They arrive at those conclusions by assigning point values to various items of information that are included either on your credit application or in a credit report.

By Elizabeth Holly
SHAPING YOUR APPLICATION TO FIT THE RIGHT PEOPLE

Creditors approve credit to those people who most closely match the right profile. They arrive at those conclusions by assigning point values to various items of information that are included either on your credit application or in a credit report.

Credit card companies like credit scoring systems because as a large volume creditor, they can replace trained credit personnel with a relatively few employees who can quickly total number columns and determine is an applicant's point values add up to the right score.

Scoring, of course, is done for one reason. A creditor just wants to know that the odds are high he will get his money back. Scoring systems are fine for those people who fit right into the right profile, but what about those who don't but could pay off their monthly obligations just as easily and reliably as the next person? If you are one of those people who just doesn't "fit the mold," you'll simply have to make a few adjustments in your application so that you fit the scoring profile of what a creditor is looking for in a final total.

HOW CREDITORS RATE AN APPLICATION

The first thing you should know is that every system is different. That in itself can work to your advantage. You could be rejected by one company's scoring system and approved by another. One creditor's system will give you many points for a good answer, and totally ignore a question that gives a negative answer. Another creditor can simply reverse the process.

Keeping in mind that creditors use different scoring systems, we will list only the most important questions and briefly review how a response can affect your total score. The following categories are listed from the highest to lowest awarded each response.

RESIDENCE- The longer you have lived in one place the better. Stability is given high points.

HOME OWNERSHIP- The best possible housing situation is to own your own house, even if it is mortgaged. The worst is: renting an unfurnished apartment, living with your parents, living in a trailer or motel.

GEOGRAPHIC LOCATION- Scoring systems are adjusted for differences in geographic locations. For examples, home ownership may not score high in an area where there is a high incidence of credit problems, reoccurring employee/employer differences, low income, etc.

EMPLOYMENT-The longer you have been on the job the better.

OCCUPATION-Occupations can be divided into many categories with a high to low score within each category for different occupations. Sometimes an employer is scored, instead of the occupation of the applicant.

AGE-Older is not considered better until you pass age 40. Under 25 to the end of the 30's receive the lowest scores. The rational is that people under 25 haven't proven they are a good credit risk. People in their 30's are still raising a family, buying a home, and tied down with enormous expenses. This is also the time most people declare bankruptcy.

INCOME- The higher your income the more points you will receive.

TELEPHONE-Having a telephone is an indication of stability. Give yourself more points.

AGE OF AUTOMOBILE- No auto is a low score, but the newer the vehicle the higher the score.

DEPENDENTS- One to three indicates responsibility and stability. After three, points drop rapidly.

CITIZENSHIP STATUS- Non-citizens receive negative points.

BANK ACCOUNTS- You receive high points if you have a checking and savings account.

CREDIT REFERENCES

IN-HOUSE RECORDS- A good payment record will earn you more points.

CREDIT CARDS- The more major credit cards you have the better.

BANK LOAN- A current bank loan will increase your score.

FINANCE COMPANY LOANS- You will receive negative points for each finance company loan.

TWO POWERFUL STRATEGIES THAT CAN GET YOUR APPLICATION APPROVED

Credit checks are requested by banks, lenders, and other creditors to see if there are negative items in your file. The more negative items you have, the less your chances of credit will be. As we have seen, creditors look for stability and reliability in an applicant. A steady source of income will receive a high score, but even more important than an income amount is a creditors belief and perception that you are both willing and able to pay back a debt.

In other words, even if you fail to pass certain criteria or formulas, your application can still be approved on another level that will get you the credit you want no matter what a scoring system profile says.

Extending credit to customers is the way the creditors make money. If you convince them you are a good risk they will give you what you want. Basically, there are two ways you can achieve that goal.

1) You can bypass the normal scoring methods that are used by impressing the person your application that you are sincere, reliable, stable, and have the ability to make monthly payments on a loan or credit card account.

2) You can tailor your answers to the applications questions and in that manner fir into the right scoring mold of what a good credit risk is, according to the formula they are using.

That doesn't mean you should lie on your application. It simply means you should be aware that being compatible with certain stereotypes will work in your favor. remember, a creditor can still verify the information you list in an application. Still, many people the truth to put themselves in a favorable position. For example:

1) Some applicants will list their parent's, a friend's or a relative's address as their own residence and indicate they have lived there for years, knowing it probably won't be checked.

2) Provided an applicant has a friend or employer who will go along with the, he can list a position and salary they don't really receive. Then when the creditor calls to verify employment the friend will support what the application has claimed to be true.

3) Another way applicants instantly increase their salary is to set up their own corporation. After issuing themselves private stock with an inflated value, they list the stock as part of their salary.

MORE HOT TIPS ON HOW YOU CAN STACK THE ODDS IN YOUR FAVOR

1) If you don't have a telephone get one installed. The alternative is to make arrangement with the telephone company and a friend or relative, to have your name listed with their phone.

2) If you have more than one job, list the one that provides you with the greatest income.

3) Add your income from all sources and place the total in your gross income listing. Be prepared to submit a supplement to your application if they want to verify your income with your employer.

4) Many banks will have a list of "good" and "bad" reasons for borrowing money. Unless you are applying for a secured loan, you don't have to spend the money for the reason specified. Good reasons include home improvement, education, loan to establish credit, medical treatment for you or your family, and secured loans for a home, car, boat, and other properties.

"Bad" reasons include loans that create another obligation such as that created when you borrow money for a down payment and then have two payments to make; money to pay fine or penalty; money to consolidate debts, unless you are doing it to get a lower interest rates; an unnecessary luxury item; money to finance politics; and money that you loan to someone else. Use a little common sense in determining what type of loan a creditor may consider bad.

5) Banks use dependent figures to determine what your living costs are. If you have more than two dependents you should indicate how they earn their own way or supporting.

6) If you don't own your own home, counteract this by showing how stable you are. For example, even though you have only rented in a new location for a relatively short time, you lived at your last residence for many years. You moved to improve yourself in some way.

7) Even job changes can be counteracted if each change increased your salary and improved your position.

8) Don't ever let a creditor guess as to whether or not you can afford the extra obligation you are asking for. Make it obvious by the amount of your income. If you have more income sources than just your salary, include those amounts.

ALWAYS BE PERSISTENT AND NEVER GIVE UP!

If you complete an application and are still rejected the very first thing you should do is be persistent and never give up. There are many reasons why a person may be turned down for credit, but whatever the reason, you have a legal right to ask the creditor what their reason was.By knowing what some of the main reasons are for denying credit you can put yourself in a position whereby you can make necessary adjustments and avoid negative effects in advance. If you are turned down, you can then of course concentrate on those points when you reapply.

When you are dealing with creditors you will know who is the cooperative sort, and who is not. If an unsecured loan does not appear imminent, turn the conversation to a secured loan. Then all you do is deposit an amount into savings account to serve as collateral for the amount of credit you want to secure. In some cases the creditor may take personal property as security. If you go to the creditor and it's clear he has no imagination to deal, go to another who is willing.

CONSIDER ASKING SOMEONE YOU KNOW TO CO-SIGN

A co-signer is someone who generally has better credit than the person he is co-signing for. He is also the person a creditor will go after first in the event you do not pay off your debt. Why? Because they know that co-signers don't want their credit ratings ruined and will quickly settle the obligation.

If you are trying to establish or rebuild credit, co-signers can help you achieve that goal. Naturally you wouldn't need a co-signer every time you apply for credit. After paying off one obligation with a co-signer, it should be much easier to acquire more credit on your own.Co-signers are usually friends or relatives. When you find someone willing to help they should be offered some compensation agreeable to both of you. Your application for credit will be approved primarily on the strength of your co-signer's credit.

HOW TO GET A VISA OR MASTERCARD

The tips and techniques described in this report are meant to increase the odds for anyone who is absolutely certain they cannot get a Visa/Mastercard through normal channels. You should make every attempt to clean up your credit report by removing negative items and replacing them with positive items. If you have no credit at all, open an account at a local department store. After a few months apply for your bankcard. If you are rejected, find out why and correct the problem. If that doesn't work, cultivate a relationship with your banker. Open other accounts that are easier to obtain. Increase your income. Buy a home. Make yourself a better credit risk on your credit report. Ask a friend or relative to co-sign. After paying off that debt, reapply on your own. Or, the fastest and easiest way to open a Visa or Mastercard account in your own mane, is through a secured account.

SECURED CREDIT CARDS

Secured Visa and Mastercard bank cards are issued by savings and loan association throughout the U.S. The lender will ask you to open a savings account. The funds placed into the savings account are frozen as long as there is an outstanding balance on the credit card. The savings account acts as security against non-payment of charges made against the credit card. Then, in the event a cardholder doesn't pay, funds from the frozen account can be used to pay off the debt. This method completely reduces any risk to the lender.

Requirements are often lowered by lending institutions that have this program. So if you couldn't obtain a card through your regular bank, chances are you will receive one through a secured credit card program without a credit check.

Author's URL: http://www.ElizabethHolly.com
Elizabeth Holly lives in the South and writes for women about fashion, fitness, frolic and focus. Visit her at http://www.elizabethholly.com.

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Saturday, September 27, 2008

Are Your Kids Listening?

Keywords: listening skills, interpersonal relationships, language skills, communication
More Details about http://www.characterbuilding.net here.
Summary: Helps parents communicate better with their children. New books gives parents and children an opportunity and purpose to talk about real life moral and ethical issues

By Lee Jackson
Reading and interacting with your children helps to improve their listening and communication skills. Listening, the most important skill in establishing interpersonal relationships, is one of the least taught language skills.

Businesses consistently rank listening among the top five skills they expect new employees to possess. Just as good verbal skills are important in any setting, being a good listener is the other half of any effective two-way communication.

Good listening is a skill that can easily be practiced in the home. Parents and children will become better listeners and communicators through the use of the following techniques:

* establish good eye contact * create an interest in the topic * establish a purpose for the communication * interrupt only to ask questions about what is being said * provide verbal/nonverbal feedback * share listening and speaking roles * really focus on what the person is saying and anticipate/evaluate the statements made

In his book, Listening to the Mukies and Their Character Building Adventures, Dr. Robert Bohlken, Ph.D., lets the Mukies provide the basis for an easy exchange of thoughts, feelings and ideas. These noble, yet strong and compassionate characters learn why listening and communicating with others is vital. The book gives parents and children an opportunity and purpose to talk about real life moral and ethical issues.

To get a free report titled, "Ten Techniques in Guiding Children's Behavior", send an e-mail to imagesun@asde.net and place the words "Ten Techniques" in the subject line.

Listening to the Mukies and Their Character Building Adventures is available online at http://www.characterbuilding.net or directly from Snaptail Press, Division of Images Unlimited Publishing, P.O. Box 305, Maryville, MO 64468. $14.95 each plus shipping (Mo residents add 7.475 % tax).

imagesun@asde.net
Author's URL: http://www.imagesunlimitedpub.com
Over 20 years in the publishing business. Publisher of books for cooks, apple lovers, parents and children.

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Thursday, September 25, 2008

Fair Debt Collection

Keywords: debt collection, debt collertors
More Details about http://www.ReliefLoans.com here.
Summary: If you fall behind in repaying your creditors, or an error is made on your accounts, you may be contacted by a "debt collector."

By Elizabeth Holly
If you use credit cards, owe money on a personal loan, or are paying on a home mortgage, you are a "debtor." If you fall behind in repaying your creditors, or an error is made on your accounts, you may be contacted by a "debt collector."

You should know that in either situation the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act requires that debt collectors treat you fairly by prohibiting certain methods of debt collection. Of course, the law does not forgive any legitimate debt you owe.

This brochure provides answers to commonly asked questions to help you understand your rights under the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act.

What debts are covered?

Personal, family, and household debts are covered under the Act. This includes money owed for the purchase of an automobile, for medical care, or for charge accounts.

Who is a debt collector?

A debt collector is any person, other than the creditor, who regularly collects debts owed to others. Under a 1986 amendment to the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act, this includes attorneys who collect debts on a regular basis.

How may a debt collector contact you?

A collector may contact you in person, by mail, telephone, telegram, or FAX. However, a debt collector may not contact you at unreasonable times or places, such as before 8 a.m. or after 9 p.m., unless you agree. A debt collector also may not contact you at work if the collector knows that your employer disapproves.

Can you stop a debt collector from contacting you?

You may stop a collector from contacting you by writing a letter to the collection agency telling them to stop. Once the agency receives your letter, they may not contact you again except to say there will be no further contact. Another exception is that the agency may notify you if the debt collector or the creditor intends to take some specific action.

May a debt collector contact any person other than you concerning your debt?

If you have an attorney, the debt collector may not contact anyone other than your attorney. If you do not have an attorney, a collector may contact other people, but only to find out where you live and work. Collectors usually are prohibited from contacting such permissible third parties more than once. In most cases, the collector is not permitted to tell anyone other than you and your attorney that you owe money.

What is the debt collector required to tell you about the debt?

Within five days after you are first contacted, the collector must send you a written notice telling you the amount of money you owe; the name of the creditor to whom you owe the money; and what action to take if you believe you do not owe the money.

May a debt collector continue to contact you if you believe you do not owe money?

A collector may not contact you if, within 30 days after you are first contacted, you send the collection agency a letter stating you do not owe money. However, a collector can renew collection activities if you are sent proof of the debt, such as a copy of a bill for the amount owed.

What types of debt collection practices are prohibited?

Harassment. Debt collectors may not harass, oppress, or abuse any person. For example, debt collectors may not:

- use threats of violence or harm against the person, property, or reputation;

- publish a list of consumers who refuse to pay their debts (except to a credit bureau);

- use obscene or profane language;

- repeatedly use the telephone to annoy someone;

- telephone people without identifying themselves;

- advertise your debt.

False statements. Debt collectors may not use any false statements when collecting a debt. For example, debt collectors may not:

- falsely imply that they are attorneys or government representatives;

- falsely imply that you have committed a crime;

- falsely represent that they operate or work for a credit bureau;

- misrepresent the amount of your debt;

- misrepresent the involvement of an attorney in collecting a debt;

- indicate that papers being sent to you are legal forms when they are not;

- indicate that papers being sent to you are not legal forms when they are.

Debt collectors also may not state that:

- you will be arrested if you do not pay your debt;

- they will seize, garnish, attach, or sell your property or wages, unless the collection agency or creditor intends to do so, and it is legal to do so;

- actions, such as a lawsuit, will be taken against you, which legally may not be taken, or which they do not intend to take.

Debt collectors may not:

- give false credit information about you to anyone;

- send you anything that looks like an official document from a court or government agency when it is not;

- use a false name.

Unfair practices. Debt collectors may not engage in unfair practices in attempting to collect a debt. For example, collectors may not:

- collect any amount greater than your debt, unless allowed by law;

- deposit a post-dated check prematurely;

- make you accept collect calls or pay for telegrams;

- take or threaten to take your property unless this can be done legally;

- contact you by postcard.

What control do you have over payment of debts?

If you owe more than one debt, any payment you make must be applied to the debt you indicate. A debt collector may not apply a payment to any debt you believe you do not owe.

What can you do if you believe a debt collector violated the law?

You have the right to sue a collector in a state or federal court within one year from the date you believe the law was violated. If you win, you may recover money for the damages you suffered. Court costs and attorney's fees also can be recovered. A group of people also may sue a debt collector and recover money for damages up to $500,000, or one percent of the collector's net worth, whichever is less.

Where can you report a debt collector for an alleged violation of the law?

Report any problems you have with a debt collector to your state Attorney General's office and the Federal Trade Commission. Many states also have their own debt collection laws and your Attorney General's office can help you determine your rights.

If you have questions about the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act, or your rights under the Act, write: Correspondence Branch, Federal Trade Commission, Washington, D.C. 20580. Although the FTC generally cannot intervene in individual disputes, the information you provide may indicate a pattern of possible law violations requiring action by the Commission.

Author's URL: http://www.ElizabethHolly.com
Elizabeth Holly lives in the South and writes for women about fashion, fitness, frolic and focus. Visit her at http://www.elizabethholly.com.

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Tuesday, September 23, 2008

What You Must Do Now If You Want to Have a Lot of Friends in Your Old Age!

Keywords: friends, friendship, loneliness, aging, old age, older, relationships, social life, lonely, avoid,
More Details about http://www.royanereal.com here.
Summary: Many people try to save some money for their old age, but many of us neglect this most important invesment. If we don't start making this investment now, no amount of money will make us happy!

By Royane Real


When I was twenty-two, I was befriended by a woman named Doris who was thirty years older than I was.

Although Doris was then a fifty-two year old woman, she did not feel it was inappropriate to befriend me. She did not operate with the social belief that she should choose her friends only from people her own age. We became very close friends and remained so until her death at the age of eight-two.

When Doris turned seventy-five, she was already widowed. The week she turned seventy-five, Doris threw two birthday parties for herself, one on a Wednesday night, and one on Saturday. Over thirty different people attended each party. I was the only person invited to both. In all, about seventy of Doris¡¯ friends came that week to celebrate her birthday. On both nights many people stayed until past one in the morning.

As I looked around the room at both parties that week in amazement, I noticed that the people attending her birthday parties were of all ages. They included toddlers, teens, middle-aged people, and the elderly.

Doris had never restricted herself to making friends only within her own age group. She had always made it a point to befriend people of all ages. Consequently, she did not suffer the same social fate so many elderly people face when their circle of same-age friends starts to dwindle from sickness and death. I hoped that when I was the same age as Doris that I would be able to have as many friends and acquaintances gathered to help celebrate my birthday.

I didn¡¯t know any other people her age who could throw two birthday parties in one week, and have seventy people show up. I wondered how Doris had made so many friends.

She had never been wealthy, but over the years Doris and her husband had made a practice of opening their hearts and their home to many people. They not only befriended a lot of people and maintained those friendships over the years, but they also befriended the children of their friends, and stayed friends with the younger generation.

I noticed that whenever I brought some of my own friends with me to visit Doris, she never treated my friends as expendable people that she would never see again. She was gracious and kind and interested in all of them. Her caring about each human being was always apparent. When we finished our visit, Doris would often extend an invitation to the friends I had brought to come and visit her again, and many of them did so.

When she issued invitations Doris never seemed as if she were inviting people because she was lonely or desperate for company. Her invitations were always genuinely joyful. She loved meeting people and wanted to see them again.

As Doris neared the end of her life, she became very ill and very poor. Yet, she never lacked for love and support from the many friends she had kept making throughout her whole life.

I learned something important that week at Doris¡¯ two birthday parties. I realized that we make a big mistake if we tell young and middle-aged people to invest their money for their old age, but neglect to tell them that it is at least as important to invest in relationships with other people.

We make a mistake if we don¡¯t tell people that it is just as important to invest kindness in the people we meet, and invest our interest in them. There are other kinds of investment accounts besides those that are held by banks. A big bank account won¡¯t make up for loneliness in your old age.

I decided that if I wanted to have as many friends as Doris did, I would have to keep making friends and keep maintaining friendships my whole life. I would have to make friends with people of all ages, including those much younger and much older than me.

Older people confront unique challenges in trying to maintain a satisfying social life. Many people find it difficult to make new friends as they get older.

As people age they often face social, health and monetary challenges. Older people may become less physically mobile. They often have less money to spend on recreation and entertainment. Older people are also more likely to suffer from depression. They may be physically frail and afraid to go out at night. Even if they remain healthy themselves, aging people experience the deaths of long time friends and spouses, resulting in a shrinking circle of social and emotional support.

In the modern western world, older people are often treated as if their usefulness is finished, and as if what they have to say is not really relevant to the young. A lot of older people are shocked to discover when they retire at the age of sixty or sixty-five, that the friendships they thought had developed at work do not survive the retirement party.

In many modern societies, older people are socially marginalized, and left to socialize solely with each other. People in North America are much more segregated along age lines than people in some other parts of the world. In North America, teenagers tend to socialize with other teenagers, and older people are expected to make friends with other older people.

No matter where you live, or what your age, you do not need to follow your local society¡¯s dictates about what age your friends should be. You do not need to restrict yourself to making friends only with your own age group.

If you are concerned that you may be lonely in your later years, the time to start doing something about it is now, no matter what your current age might be. As you grow older, make sure you stay living in the present, not in the past.

In your conversations with others, don¡¯t be fixated on who you used to be, or on your current ailments. Be willing to make many social approaches to others, no matter what the outcome. Stay interested in the current world, stay optimistic, and keep a youthful, open mind.

info@royanereal.com

Author's URL: http://www.royanereal.com

Royane Real is the author of several excellent downloadable ebooks including "How to Be Smarter" and "Your Guide to Finding Friends, Making Friends and Keeping Friends" available at her website at http://www.royanereal.com

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Sunday, September 21, 2008

5 Simple Steps To Internet Business Success...

Keywords: internet business, internet marketing, internet home business, webiste traffic, work at home,
More Details about http://www.gurutrafficsecrets.com here.
Summary: Many people dream of owning a successful internet business,however very few people ever succeed. ere's a simple 5 step plan, I set for myself...

By Munya Chinongoza
Many people dream of owning a successful internet business, however very few people ever succeed.

Why is that? My answer is simply, many people get into the internet business, without any planning at all. They just jump into it and hope that after placing a few free ads here and there they will eventually start earning that most coverted six figure monthly or even better yearly income.

For example, let's say you decided to drive from New York to Los Angelos for the first time ever, without a road map.

How many times do you think, you will get lost?

How many times do you think, you will become frustuated?

Definetely more times, than if you had a map to guide you to take the right routes, at exactely the right time.

That is exactely why it is very important, you set a simple plan to follow inorder for you to achieve the success you dream of with your own internet business.

Here's a simple 5 step plan, I set for myself...

1) Build your list

No matter what you sell, you should always build your own opt in list, right from the get go, this is your most

- Give away something free (report ebook etc) - Promote an affiliate program through your own page for example my webiste http://AmazingCashStrategies.com

2) Have your own product to sell

With your own product, you can develop your own affiliate program and be able to recruit your own team of affiliates.

- Create your own product or service - Or you can buy rights to a very good product.

3) Learn how to get "good quality traffic".

No traffic = No sales. You need to learn strategies & techniques to drive t.argeted free traffic to your site.

- I recommend - http://www.GuruTrafficSecrets.com - 14 top internet marketers show you how to do this.

4) Create a backend system, to sell to your customers

Your customers, already have trust in you. It is much easier to get them to buy from you again and again.

- Always give them a special discount, - keep them happy they usually keep buying.

5) Build strong relationships with other Netpreneurs

Especially those that have made it it big "the gurus", in your particular "niche". They can help you succeed.

- Get on their lists, reply to their comments & suggestions & very soon they will start to recognize your email when it pops up in their inboxes.

There it is, you are welcome to adopt my paln for yourself. I like simplicity, so I hope this is simple enough for you.

Don't wait any longer, plan your steps to success today and really get started on achieving your ultimate dream.

I WILL SEE YOU AT THE TOP!!! - Exactely Where you belong...

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============================================================== Munya Chinongoza is the author of "Guru Traffic Secrets Vol.1" He recently interviewed 14 top internet marketers "gurus" and asked them to reveal how they drive unlimited targeted traffic to their websites everyday, usually with little or no effort at all on their part: http://www.GuruTrafficSecrets.com

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